Dating for spiritual
She broke down in James’ arms one night and poured out the story of the things which had devastated her just in the past week. “You used to be such a spiritual warrior, but these days you are such a drama queen. Unfortunately, the ego can pick up on the spiritual terminology (without grasping the underlying concepts), and use spiritual language for egoic purposes.
You are lowering the vibration of our relationship with all this over-reaction and attachment. In James’ case, the spiritual language allowed him to control the relationship, stay in his comfort zone, and to avoid looking at his own contribution to Carina’s stress and unhappiness.
Spiritual values are an amazing contribution to a relationship. The defensive use of spiritual words to avoid deep genuine connection only shows up gradually over time, often over months, or even years.
And, because there is a small element of truth in the spiritual asshole’s argument (if we were, in fact, completely detached, their behaviour wouldn’t actually upset us, after all), we focus on ourselves and our own weaknesses, rather than asserting our boundaries and our right to equal consideration in the relationship.
She redoubled her efforts to trust him and to follow his spiritual guidance.
” At that moment, it dawned on Carina that James was, in fact, an asshole. All these skills can make the wrong people, very attractive prospective partners.James was a skilled lover, and Carina discovered that there are many different kinds of orgasm, some of which took her to out-of-body experiences and sublime states of consciousness.James was the “spiritual leader” in their relationship.I am very healthy and fit for my age, and have been studying wellness, nutrition and genetics since 2012.My first degree was in accounting & finance and I almost completed an MBA Would be so easy to write nice things here about oneself.